There are ways to turn a bad break up into the best thing that ever happened to you. Most people think that it is best to spend their time grieving for their loss of a relationship. The best thing that you can do to get over a relationship is to take up a new hobby. Find something that you have always wanted to do and do it. Another good way to get over a relationship is to focus on your health and get into shape. You will fell better about yourself and you will look great. Just remember that happiness is the best revenge.